What is Silence?

Being the listener is called Silence. Once you become ready to listen to others, congratulations you are a silent person. 

This is not becoming silent means you have stopped speaking, you zipped up your mouth. It means you are ready to listen to people and you also give your response. Here is the story that silence, I am not talking about: 

There was a person named ‘Vikash’ and he heard from his classmate that being silent is very important and helpful in life. You became more impactful and became more mysterious. After that Vikash starts being silent every time, if someone asks any question to him then he starts being quiet because he thinks that silence means total silence. So, he started being silent all the time. 

So this is the story of Vikash, and this kind of silence is called fool and dumb.

Why to Become Silent?

1. You can be a good Listener:

Becoming a good listener is not as easy as you think. What this exactly means is that you have to listen to the people, until they finish their words. You often listen to the people to respond to them, to teach them. We don’t listen to the people “to listen. Why do you usually listen to people? Do you think that you listen to listen? So, if you are silent then you are a good listener. 

2. Control Over Yourself

If you become silent then you often speak limitedly, if you speak limitedly then you speak every measurable word. Obviously, that helps you to control yourself. 

3. You became more impactful

Once you become silent, then the words that come outside of your mouth are always impactful (Positively). Why does this happen? If you are silent then you often speak necessarily but once you speak something then everything that you speak is deep and the other benefit of this is that you pick every word for you ‘Deep Vocabulary’.

4. You became more  Mysterious:

Let's think, you enter a room of 20 boys and they are talking and you observe one student who is quiet, not speaking with others. Now, what do you think about him? You became a little bit more concerned about that guy. Why does this happen? Because ‘doing nothing is the best thing to do’. 

 How to Become Silent?

I already said that why become silent? And that is the answer of HOW TO BECOME SILENT? There is no specific point that makes you silent. That can be your goal, and that can be the benefit of the silence. If you are obsessed about your goal or your career, then you can be the silent person, because if you are so clear about what to do. Then why do you speak unnecessarily with people? Otherwise, If you want to take the advantages of silence that I already mentioned above. 

From My POV: - Silence is the best thing that I ever learned. It makes you more powerful, clearer, more impactful, and a good listener.